How much deposit should I collect to hold a woman's spot on a small group trip?

Your deposit should equal the money you have already promised suppliers by the time that seat is confirmed, plus the card fees you will never see again, divided by the number of seats. For most small group trips in the 8 to 14 traveler range, that lands somewhere between $400 and $900 per person. Not because those are pretty numbers, but because that is what a hotel block deposit, a guide retainer and a payment processor actually take out of you before anyone boards a plane.

The instinct to charge $250 because it feels approachable is understandable. It is also how organizers end up funding other people's cancellations out of personal savings. A deposit is not a friendliness signal. It is the amount of your own exposure you are transferring to the person who created it.

What follows is the arithmetic, in the order you should do it, with a full worked example at the end.

What your deposit is actually protecting: your supplier commitments

Before a single traveler pays you anything, you have usually signed or verbally confirmed several things. A room block at a hotel. A local operator or DMC who is holding vehicles. Sometimes a chef, a permit, a boat, a private museum hour.

Each of those has a date after which your money stops being refundable. Those dates are the only thing that matters. Everything else in this article is a way of reading them.

Write down, for every supplier, three things: what you owe, when the deposit is due, and the date the money becomes non refundable. That single sheet is the spine of your deposit policy. If a supplier has not given you a written cancellation ladder, ask for one in writing before you take a booking. A DMC that will not commit its ladder to email is telling you something.

The commitment gap

There is almost always a window where you are exposed and your travelers are not. You paid a hotel 25 percent in January; your first traveler pays you in February; your cancellation terms only bite in April. That gap is what the deposit closes.

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Working backward from hotel and lodge cancellation ladders

Hotel group contracts in the US and Europe typically ask for a deposit at signing, then step the penalty upward as the arrival date approaches. A common shape looks like this, though yours will differ and you must read your own:

Two things follow. First, your deposit needs to cover at least the forfeited-deposit rung, because that rung arrives while you are still selling. Second, your final payment date must sit before the rung where penalties exceed what you have collected. Most organizers set final payment at 75 to 90 days out for exactly this reason.

Watch for attrition clauses too. Many blocks let you release a percentage of rooms without penalty by a stated date. If your contract allows 20 percent attrition at 90 days, your realistic worst case is smaller than the headline, and your deposit can be sized accordingly.

Guide, driver and permit retainers that bind before your travelers pay

Ground costs behave differently from hotels. A good local guide for a women's walking week in Portugal or a lead guide in Peru is booking her season months ahead and will ask for a retainer to hold the dates. Drivers and small coach operators often want a percentage at confirmation.

Permits are the hardest category because many are non transferable and non refundable from the moment of issue. Inca Trail permits are issued in the traveler's name and passport number. Certain national park and trekking permits behave the same way. If your itinerary includes one, that cost belongs in the deposit at full value, per person, no exceptions.

The test is simple: if the cost is attached to a named individual and cannot be resold to a replacement traveler, collect it up front.

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Card processing and installment fees you never get back

This is the line organizers forget. When you refund a traveler, most US processors return the transaction amount but keep the percentage fee, or return it only in limited windows. If you are running installments, you pay the fee on every single charge, not once.

Take a $4,200 trip collected as a $700 deposit plus five installments of $700. At roughly 2.9 percent plus 30 cents per transaction, which is a common published US card rate, each $700 charge costs about $20.60. Six charges is roughly $124 per traveler in processing over the life of the booking. On twelve travelers that is close to $1,485 that never reaches a supplier.

ACH or bank debit is markedly cheaper per transaction and worth offering for installments, though it settles slower and can fail days later. Many organizers take the deposit by card for speed and confirmation, then move the balance to bank debit.

Deposit versus first installment: two different jobs

Blurring these two is the most common structural mistake in small group pricing.

• The deposit holds a seat, is non refundable from the moment it is paid, and is sized to your committed outlays. Its job is risk transfer.
• The first installment is simply the first slice of the trip price, refundable or not according to your published schedule. Its job is cash flow.

Keep them separate on the invoice and in your terms. A traveler who cancels in month two should be able to see, on one line, what she loses and why. When the two are merged into a single "first payment," every cancellation becomes a negotiation.

State it as: deposit $X, non refundable, applied to the trip price. That last clause matters. The deposit is not an extra charge; it is the first part of what she owes, taken on stricter terms.

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Writing the non refundable line so it is enforceable

Enforceability comes from clarity and consent, not from bold text. Practical requirements:

1. The deposit amount, the word non refundable, and the date it becomes so, all in the same sentence.
2. A payment schedule with calendar dates, not relative phrases like "60 days prior."
3. A cancellation ladder for the balance, tied to the same dates as your supplier ladder.
4. Affirmative consent at booking: a checkbox with a timestamp and the traveler's name recorded, not a link she may never have opened.
5. The same terms restated on the invoice she receives.

Avoid terms that keep money for a service never rendered without explaining the loss. Consumer protection regimes across US states look more favorably on a deposit described as covering identified non refundable supplier commitments than on one that reads as a penalty. Say what it pays for.

Also state your transfer policy. Allowing a traveler to substitute a friend, at cost, is often the fairest outcome for everyone and costs you nothing when the supplier permits name changes.

A worked example: twelve seats, Portugal, nine months out

Assume a nine day trip, twelve travelers, a $4,200 price. These are assumptions, not benchmarks. Substitute your own quotes.

Early exposure, meaning what is gone if the whole thing collapses at the four month mark: $3,600 plus $2,400 plus $1,200 plus $400, which is $7,600. Divide by twelve seats and you get $633 per traveler.

Now add processing. Six charges at roughly $20.60 gives about $124 per traveler. That brings the figure to $757.

Round to $750 and you have a defensible deposit, with the number derived from four supplier contracts and a published card rate rather than from instinct. If you would rather sell at $600, you are choosing to absorb roughly $1,900 of group-wide exposure. That is a legitimate choice, made with eyes open.

One refinement: if you expect to run at ten paying seats rather than twelve, divide by ten. Sizing a deposit against your best case is how organizers get caught by a soft season.

Where to go from here

Build the supplier sheet first. Three columns, every commitment, the non refundable date. The deposit falls out of it almost automatically, and so does your final payment deadline.

Then make the schedule visible to travelers from the moment they book, because most deposit disputes are really schedule disputes. RoamRoster holds the roster, splits the price into installments on the dates you set, charges each one automatically and shows every traveler exactly what she has paid and what is due next, so the terms you wrote are the terms she sees. Set the deposit once, and stop rebuilding the payment tracker every departure.